A Little Bit About Me
1) I will NOT relocate.
2) If you are already married (i.e. looking for another wife), separated but not officially divorced yet, not pursuing a serious relationship leading to marriage, an active drinker of alcohol, smoker or take recreational drugs, do NOT contact me. These are my non-negotiables.
3) I am seeking a Pakistani Sunni Muslim, who lives in the US and is in his 40s. I will NOT respond to you if you’re not from the US.
4) I don’t have any kids, but open to you having kids from a previous marriage.
5) I do not wear the hijab and don’t intend to wear it in the future. I will not correspond with someone who forces his partner to cover herself. A hijab is a personal choice of the woman, not yours nor your family’s choice.
About me:
Moved to the U.S. from Pakistan in teenage. Grew up in Texas, currently working and live in Colorado with my family.
You’ll find me in the mountains quite literally all the time. I enjoy spending time in coffee shops, libraries, art stores, plein air painting, kayaking, hiking, biking, target practicing at shooting ranges, bird watching, camping, woodworking projects etc. I can be described as a workaholic, however I always make time for my family and tend to maintain a good work-life balance. I’ve been working since I was 16 and have no intentions to quit my career after marriage. My future spouse Insha’Allah, should be supportive of this, as I would be supportive of him during every course of his life. I have been blessed to have a close-knit family whom I’m grateful for, Alhamdulil’ah who’ve given me teachings of both deen and duniya, which I incorporate in my daily life moderately.
I was “arranged” married for a very short amount of time (less than a month) and divorced him due to abusive tendencies. And so, I have no room for problematic people with unrealistic expectations at this point in my life. You should be mature enough to understand what you’re getting yourself into, as marriage is a gigantic responsibility with no leeway for games nor toxic familial politics.
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What I Am Looking For
Looking for someone with a strong head on his shoulders, lives by his deen, believes in team work, financially successful, sensitive by nature but masculine at the same time, has a sense of humor, likes to travel, an adventurous spirit with a profound appreciation for life. If you don’t have any outdoor hobbies, are a lazy individual, penny pincher, and sit at home majority of the time, don’t have any meaningful experiences, I’m not the gal for you.
To some, my profile may seem blunt, but I would rather be clear than deal with problems later. I’ve encountered way too many unpleasant individuals and fraudsters on Muslim matrimonial apps, so I’ve learned to be cautious and self-aware.
Good luck with your search! May Allah (SWT) give you what you’re looking for!
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